I think you're right there. I also there isn't nearly the same progressive sex-positivity for men. I mean in mainstream culture women's sexuality is much more publicly judged, and we know how horrible that is. But phrases sexual exploration are increasingly mainstream when applied to women. I mean your grandmother or Mitt Romney might still be shocked by vibrators, but Oprah Winfrey or your roommate aren't. There is less male equivalent in **progressive, mature sex positivity.